The submissive has an equal part in responsiblity of the actions and intentions during the scene.
But a DOM cannot be in violation of crossing a boundary that the sub was not even aware of prior to the scene.
Manipulative or vindictive Sub / Bottoms can assert false claims of abuse, misconduct or injury. Always have video taped consent along with written consent forms signed while on video.
Educate Yourself
A Many people who have dabbled in the D/s BDSM lifestyle mistakenly believe that a DOM is inherently an ogre who barks demands and treats a sub like a doormat. They also commonly believe that a sub has no say, ability to act or any control at all. Neither assumption is true. In fact in a health D/s interaction the DOM and sub are equal. Simply put the lines of D and s simplify and make the interaction far more manageable and positive.
When a person cedes their position of power to their trusted partner under clearly negotiated rules it allows each partner to act at their fullest to fulfill the other partner's needs, desires, fantasies and more. Having taken great care, time and patience to delineate the boundaries, desires, fantasies, likes, dislikes, no matter what they are allows a D/s couple to share a much more fulfilling relationship than a "normal vanilla" couple who rarely discuss any such things. With the facts on the table you are free to play, explore, role play, test boundaries and grow together all in an atmosphere of respect and mutual pleasure.
Some "bad words" that would massively insult a person in the general public are a total turn on to hear during play. Hair pulling, mild spanking, etc. are common components of people's play montage. A DOM calling his sub a whore, slut, etc. is commonly part of the play. Of course it is part of play, in the world outside the DOM treats his sub with respect and courtesy. The secret that they share; the words written on her butt with Sharpie are their little turn on just out of sight.
Power Exchange Play is a very popular way for people who are forced to me in charge every day under high stress and aggravation typically enjoy submitting in order to shed the power struggle and just enjoy being with their partner.
Power Exchange Play
Is Half of the
Sensual Bondage Fun
Sensual bondage is based on a mutually agreed Exchange of Power between two partners. The limits, levels, extremity and areas of power exchange must be carefully and clearly defined prior to beginning. Safe Words and Safe Actions are critical and must be refreshed, reminded and practiced in order to assure total safety of all involved.
Power Exchange is when one person is designated as the Dominant (DOM) and the other assumes the role of Submissive (Sub).
Power Exchange Play Defined
Promoting
Sensual Bondage
& Power Exchange
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